Don't be a cigarette that they step on once Finished, be the DRUG that they DIE Without !!
Break-up, a very heavy misnomer in our mundane lives..he doesn't cope up with my emotional needs and doesn't understand me then why should I !? and Boom &;@&*$>&#@ there you Go !! Seems familiar !? Kinda De ja vu !? to me too, recently lived a situation where when I heard The Truth everything else suddenly appeared to be a LIE !!
What do Men really want !? Love, Trust, Attention !? or mere "I am Dumb Darling, go on Fool me and I wont know" is really Being Naive taken Granted for Being Dumb !? I'd say NUMB is what the situation calls for..If caught red-handed, "Oh well, you are not that innocent either as you were Policing me" and if stay Numb "Oh well I am tired today, going Home honey will call you after reaching home, all's Good, thanks for Being there, Girl you are My Angel"
Well what's Missing !? The Love !? The Spark !? The Addiction !? naaaah its just a New Race of Proving that "I am the Man and you don't have a Right to make me realise that I can be Wrong, just ATALL" Love, Care, Worry, Pamper, Attention when everything is in place, why seek for a new Race !? "WHY- !?"..aaaaahhhhhh since when did you become so DUMB !? Its simply because I am a Man, I may take a break whenever it excites me, I may do anything on this Mother Earth and I don't need to Justify it to you even when I know you are the one who means my World to me !!
"I Love you unconditionally only on the condition that you should ideally do too"..WOW isn't it Amazing !? "I know I Lie, though you lie too when you run your mind and follow your instincts in catching me..so yeah evens out ina way".."you Love me because you cant get a better soul mate who can live up with your Emotions !!" REALLY !? Well then honey what's with the Acceptance that "You can get any guy since You are so damn Good !?" after Forgiving "I know I was wrong, your efforts are just very True and you are not wrong, but honey what do I do !? I Fear you !!"
Oh Boy, Fear me !? had you been Fearing me, you wouldn't have Lied to me on avoidable stuff..get it !! It's not My Fear that makes you Lie, it's just your convenient compulsion to Lie that makes you Score it every time..Dont scape goat me..It's you and your compulsive Lies Darling !! Me being a Woman don't need the Philosphy that you fabricate, I am strongly Blessed to deal with THE TRUTH :-) Honey, the only feeling I have is you need to Quit Lies, not only because I Don't Like it, but also because it doesn't help you anytime, it only worsens the situation..Plus its TOTALLY AVOIDABLE and please, please do not think that I am angry or pissed because that stage is Long Gone !! I strongly Feel you are falling short of the Ladder to your success, its not Invisible, its right here, you just need to Grab it by Quiting Lies and stepping up !! Wish you All The Best Honey !!
P.S : Menwhopause.........have mood swings Guaranteed !!
So Be Sure of the Constant and you will enjoy the Change Honey :-)
16 comments:
You write very well ohsummmmmmm
and ohsummm pic....u hav been swimminggggggggggg
Hey Sonali,
A post after a long time, and boy what a cracker..
am rather ignorant abt these issues to comment.. except that you were right when you said
...Proving that "I am the Man"...
yeah men love to assert this fact again and again.. just like women love to be cherished and reassured about certain things..
and keep a kool head!!!
-Utpal
@ Chirag : Thanks my ardent follower :P and thanks for the picture appreciation too..yeah Beating the Heat with some WATER :-)
@ D.S.K : he he Thanks Dear :P Women "need" to be cherished and reassured about how "Giving" they are as they simply "Deserve" any form Mother, sister, Girl Friend, Wife, Daughter :-) "Giving" in regards with Support, Trust and Lot of Motivation to their respective Men and relations..and this makes them "Love" it as you intend to say :-)
and thanks again for agreeing about "I am The Man.."
P.S : I am just Pleasant headed, at times cool head also isn't apt so..
:-)
I got an argument of my own in response to this giving concept, but am going to restraint myself for two reasons:
1) If having/winning an argument are the only motives, this could easily turn into a never ending one. There still won't be any result at the end of eternity.
2) Something in your post pinched, shook, rattled and woke me up from my slumber.. brought me back to the real world.
So I am thankful to you for this piece. I am having an argument of my own right now.. with me.. hehe
Cheers.
not a shade of madness ... pure truth
@ Utpal : he he :P
I am GLAD you could form a connect..
@ Phoenix : Who is this !?
Leave your name..
@ Phoenix aka Deepak : Thanks TRUTH for SURE !!
Men often find it difficult to comprehend when being told about their sins and mistakes.
So do I...!
But one line says it all.. Don't be a cigarette that they step on once Finished, be the DRUG that they DIE Without !!
Thanks for the eye opener.!
-A.
@ Akshat : Men dont just find it difficult they FEEL INVALIDATED of the projection of events/ invention of Lies they casted..hence the restlessness..
:-)
You are welcome :-)
Your Philanthropist :p he he :P
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