23 July, 2011

I Love You* * Conditions Apply


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Is love without passion possible !? Is passion without love possible !? Will that be called lust !? At some times, in our lives we find ourselves pondering over these intangible questions. These questions are hard to answer because the answers depends on one’s perception of these imperceptible human emotions like love, passion and lust. I have always found it hard to draw a line which separates love and passion from each other. I have always considered that they co-exist together for a meaningful relationship or in other words, that they co-exist together in a relationship for it to have some meaning really.

However, I have realized, that my notion of co-existence of love and passion was based on my perception of viewing love as in from a romantic angle. If I were to define the wider definition of love, I would say that love has got three components – mental intimacy, physical intimacy and commitment.
Mental intimacy refers to closeness one feels in terms of being able to understand each others thought process or being able to predict each others behavior. Friendship could be said to be dominated by this component of love. Physical intimacy means the attraction to the other person sexually or in other words, attraction driven by our desires. Infatuation could be described as a kind of love where this physical intimacy is the most dominating component. Commitment is perhaps the component, defining which I find it hardest to articulate. Commitment could be defined as the feeling which makes you think that you would willingly like to stick through thin and thick phases of the other person, support the other person during the bad times and rejoice in their success and celebrate it as your own during the good times. Usually, arranged marriages begin with commitment(forced by marriage) component of love and then progresses to achieve other components of love.

Based on the above described classification, I would consider a relationship driven by physical intimacy component as lust if it is a mutual affair, or as infatuation if it is a one-sided affair. And finally coming to passion, I perceive it as a relationship where physical intimacy is dominating with mental intimacy hidden behind the perceptible layers.

Defining intrinsic human emotions intricately is not easy. And sometimes, it is in our best interests that we do not try to classify our feelings or emotions. Although, the classification is really fuzzy, our intellect will reason us to label our emotions which is often not required.


P.S : Experience is a wonderful feeling. It enables you to recognise a mistake when you make it again hence at crossroads of life, one has OPTIONS ;-)

I Love You*
*Conditions Apply

18 July, 2011

Be You, Everyone Else is Taken !!





Sonali Rathore has successfully jumped off the world's highest Bungy platform at 233 meters above ground level at the Macau Tower,
and is Officially entitled to ask the world
"Do you have what it takes !?"
yuhooooooooooooo :)


I Love Defenseless Animals Especially in a Good Gravy..he he ;p Butter Chicken after 3 long years..as I always say nothing can match the Love for food in Life..Finger licking yumilicious Chiccckkkeeeeeeeeeennnnnn Today..
You are The BEST when you are YOU !! NO DOUBT..Compromise in the name of a 'wish' haaahh that's NOT LIFE !! Yes you do Live for Others but When you Say Yes to Others Never Say NO to Yourself !!
Life's Beautiful only if I wear my SMILE ;p Shopping, Butterrrrrrrr Chickkkeeeennnn, ICE CREAM and then Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara..What a Day !!
Yet another Sunday well spent and this time with SELF ;-)
Movie has Skuba and Sky Diving Both Showcased beautifully, watching the trio of Hrithik, Farhan and Abhay it was such a De-ja-vu to my Bungy Blue for the Obvious Reasons cuz Nothing can Beat Flying !! Oh What a TIME !! I Have Lived Life for SURE, and I am one Amongst a very few who get to Fly Like a Bird and Sing 'The WORLD is MINE' while experiencing the Free Fall Literally he he ;p wow wow wow What an Amazing Experience of Life Time !!

Bachelor's Party : ha ha The BEST Time Any Guy can have..

Bachelor : To me the word has more Independence than just Tagging my self with a name and joining the CULT for the Society Standards of being called Committed..ha ha I mean I have heard my friends saying All's well but just that she is Possessive and he is way to Casual..Dude Nothing's JUST here..none is happy or may be most of them..But Moving on and Dropping each other seems like a Society Hi 5 in the Face..so yeah they Stay Together !

Being Single is a Journey full of Adventure, Loving and doing things you want for Life is Absolute No Match to Being committed..No Offence to the One's in Love cuz there they have their 'Single' time ;-) the one's who pretend to be happy together this is a Thought for 'em ;-) Lollzzzzz !!

Zindagi actually Na Milegi Dobara kisi aur ko samjhaaney se achha apni Jiyo aur Mast raho ;-)


P.S : Do what you Love, Love what you do : That's Blackberry !!
Do who you Love and Love who you Do : That's Me !! Got it !? ;-) !? Lolllzzzzzzzz

Drop your inhibitions and Live Life to the Fullest..Try it ;-) It Just always Works!!

17th July 2011 is a Date I'll Remember :-) for Life !!

12 July, 2011

Sexified Expedition !



Sexified !

Ofcourse, I Missed You........................I ran outa Bullets :D


Xtremists go the Xtremeways..in the walk of Life choose a psycho-'Path' :D Lollzzzz


P.S : Adventure Sports :D